Building a United Front for Your Natural Pregnancy | Parental Courage

Believing in yourselves -- whose life is it?

Always remember that you are working with nature. She has the plan. All templates unfold best when left alone. You can transform any previous pregnancy or birth anxieties by following nature's blueprint.

Change the conditions -- change the outcome. Find out where you both stand, have conversations -- do not assume. Nature is your ally here. Follow her needs and all will be well.

What script are you running?

Pregnant, there may be a lot of inner work, and negotiation between you as a couple to be made. By becoming more of a bonded couple, a space is cleared to explore what you want in being parents together.

Trust. Faith and an unrelenting awareness that you will be guided. Naturally. Ignore those who have dogma, with a vested interest separate to a bonded mum and baby outcome. Not framed in fear and doubt.

Doubt causes more worry involving ever more interventions due to the very nature of grooming. Reassurance is all you need -- nature is in charge. Follow the blueprint that life gave all of us. It will always let you know what is needed.

Whose baby is it?

Whilst this sounds obvious, you live with consequences. Your life and your baby. Until you both are secure in your couple's ways, involving many conversations and awareness raising, you may choose to stay as blissfully undisturbed as possible by keeping your baby news a mystery.

Leave this as a special secret so you can together decide how to approach parenting, as all decisions you make will affect the outcome of an easy and a happy life onwards.

What if? It did not work out last time . . .?

Maybe life took a turn you were not expecting/did not want? This time you are setting yourselves up to win. Great life preparation whether running a marathon, gardening, farming, building a house, or a baby/family of babies.

Choose the best ingredients and a simple healthy lifestyle as the insurance. Nutrients used appropriately means you sort out your gut, your sleep and your lives before becoming parents to be.

Nature is on your side - are you on her's?

Switching gears

Survival of the fittest is how nature operates. Some may follow as they are directed. This is likely not you to be here.

Whose system works? Tribal elders of all cultures knew how life won. They were the survivors. Their ways were assumed common sense.

You may need to work out your own definition of what causes health. Life enhancement is not within the medical scope of practice.

Maybe follow what farmers have always done? To make the next generation, they insured success by picking breeding stock as the most perfect specimens, who then got access to the best ingredients, and life took care of itself. Be like them.

What sort of parents do you want to be?

'Good' parents. What does this even mean to you both? By being here, I would hope that you are aware that the body/nature rules. Not being compliant to a constructed changeable fee for service enforced reality is baby's and your best bet.

Critically thinking means growing up Not being reactive and fearing life. You are going down a well-worn path. Mothers and grannies are your allies here. They were the nurturers and you need their wisdoms.

Being a united front before engaging in anyone else's opinions and ideas will help. By spending time to work out what you both see as your parenting future, what comes next is then easy. Setting boundaries.

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